Armenians and sex: what's your opinion?

[RareChik]

Re: Armenians and sex: what's your opinion?

Many of those outdated traditions are still alive throughout Armenian communities. Personally, I think that Armenians should be more open minded about sex. I know many young girls who are curious about sex but are very afraid to mention it to their parents because they know the only answer they will get is to wait until marriage and that there will absolutely no conversation. I also know many Armenian men who would never touch a woman who wasn't "pure" - nonsense mentality to me.

More broadly, I don't understand why many are afraid of sex. Why not teach young men and women about sex, about the options they have, about safe sex, also about abstaining, about the emotional aspects, the consequences and let them make up their minds themselves.

Why do you think that most of the young men in our community don't change their minds about it or are not more open to it?

[RareChik]

Re: Armenians and sex: what's your opinion?

First of all, I dont need advice, I asked for opininons....Belive it or not these are issues in our community...Just from ur reply it seems like u r stuck in the past like most of the armenian guys....im not sure ..but thats my OPINION...and secondly...I'm not achild that u need to tell me to concentrate on my education...Im a senior in a University prepared to graduate...How old are u anyways?

[LadySilver]

Re: Armenians and sex: what's your opinion?

Many of those outdated traditions are still alive throughout Armenian communities. Personally, I think that Armenians should be more open minded about sex. I know many young girls who are curious about sex but are very afraid to mention it to their parents because they know the only answer they will get is to wait until marriage and that there will absolutely no conversation. I also know many Armenian men who would never touch a woman who wasn't "pure" - nonsense mentality to me.

More broadly, I don't understand why many are afraid of sex. Why not teach young men and women about sex, about the options they have, about safe sex, also about abstaining, about the emotional aspects, the consequences and let them make up their minds themselves.

[Azad]

Re: Armenians and sex: what's your opinion?

...would any guys on this forum be ina serious relationship with someone who was not a virgin?

Well shiiit yeh as long it is a female.
Just kidding. This thread is childish .... My suggestion to you before thinking on getting humped focus on your education instead of these banal thoughts.
Regards

[RareChik]

Re: Armenians and sex: what's your opinion?

Do you people think threesome sex will solve the issues in question?

No. LOL. I just think ur horny.

[RareChik]

Re: Armenians and sex: what's your opinion?

I live in Glendale and as u no it's a heavily populated armenian community...Even here if a gir has slept with a guy, nobody would take her seriously...this is most common amongst armenians from armenia even if they have been here forever....I mean I have done research and asked so many people...Most armenian guys still have that mentality....i mean it was embedded into them as they grew up....I have asked many ppl if they talk about it and most said no...wen i say talk about i mean really talk about it....the girls dont sit down and say u no wat we've been together for a month or two or 5 and i wana let u no that im gna b a virgin til we get married so im not gna accept tha fact that u go out and get it from other ppl...or say u no wat i think sex b4 marriage is ok...wat do u think...do u think thats wrong? i mean they just dont talk about it and at the end wen the guy sleeps with another girl ...the relationship is over...would any guys on this forum be ina serious relationship with someone who was not a virgin?

[Inthemood]

Re: Armenians and sex: what's your opinion?

what i mean is that when the girls think that it's something so horrible, and that's embedded in their mind, later on in life even if they are married, they don't enjoy sex or in a relationship(not married), they don't openly talk about it with their partners because theyre embarrassed. Also, you don't see armenian guys wait until marriage but it's mandatory for the girl to wait. There's conflict there because if ur in a relationship for a long time then it's unnatural to not have sex for years, especially if the guy is not a virgin, i dont think hes gna wanna wait that long. Here comes the problem where they go and cheat in the relationship. And wat do you mean wen you say they make horrible decisions and regret it? Also, if youve been in a long term relationship and have no plans to get married soon then its hard not to have sex...and this creates another problem of armenian couples rushing into marriage for sex

I think what you speak of are outdated traditions. This was paramount with older generation, for "times they are a-changin." We live a contemporary and open society with new perspectives and different values. If anything, it seems like it hit the other extreme. Now everyone openly talks about sex with their friends and therapists, has sex left and right and goes on talk shows. I don't live in a concentrated Armenian community, but from what I hear many young Armenians have abandoned that foolish "ideology."

[Azad]

Re: Armenians and sex: what's your opinion?

Do you people think threesome sex will solve the issues in question?

[jgk3]

Re: Armenians and sex: what's your opinion?

well, it is out of context with the reality of the times now, that's for sure.

[RareChik]

Re: Armenians and sex: what's your opinion?

I like your answer...Also we need to change the mindset of Armenian guys...the mindset that a girl HAS to be a virgin or else she's not worth being serious with or marrying...NONSENSE