Strippers And You

[Anonymouse]

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A smart businessman would make strip clubs in Armenia and have Armenian dancers, or some Armenian porn.

Oh how quickly it will sell. Build and they shall come (no pun intended).

[ara87]

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As long as she's std clean and willing to give up her line of occupation for you, why not? However if she's working as a stripper to pay off things like college loans, medical bills, etc, chances are she'll stay with her current occupation unless she can find a job that pays the same or better (unlikely)

The real question is, would YOU be able to have a relationship with a stripper .. not a one-night-stand ... I mean a real relationship knowing what she does.

But even if she was std clean and gave up her life as a stripper for you, the question above applies...Can you date her knowing what she's done?

[One-Way]

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Do what to you? Remind you of an old flame?

No, lol. It's just... you know. She obviously gave her number (even if it's fake) just to make money from a dance. Yada yada yada...

Basically, run! Don't make me/us go into detail about why this is a bad idea.

[Anonymouse]

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Can you date her knowing what she's done?

No, she is permanently scarred in my eyes for having made that choice. All we are is based on the choices we have made. This will be luggage she will carry for the rest of her life. She may as well have herpes.

[ara87]

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All we are is based on the choices we have made.

Interesting view point. However, i try to see past the choices though and try to understand why they were made in the first place. It's one thing if she became a stripper to sustain a drug habit, it's a completely other thing though if she did it to pay off medical bills or something.

[Anonymouse]

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Interesting view point. However, i try to see past the choices though and try to understand why they were made in the first place. It's one thing if she became a stripper to sustain a drug habit, it's a completely other thing though if she did it to pay off medical bills or something.

So? She still became a stripper and whorred herself out. To me it's not the underlying rationale that matters. People have many rationales for the things they do. Intentional murder is obviously worse than heat of passion manslaughter in terms of sentencing. However, that does not change the fact that the individual still engaged in a certain act that is morally reprehensible.

[ArmSurvival]

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No, she is permanently scarred in my eyes for having made that choice. All we are is based on the choices we have made. This will be luggage she will carry for the rest of her life.

I agree. It also pertains to your potential future with such a person-- how can you be with someone knowing that they have a habit of making highly questionable decisions?

[Armanen]

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A smart businessman would make strip clubs in Armenia and have Armenian dancers, or some Armenian porn.

Oh how quickly it will sell. Build and they shall come (no pun intended).

I hope you are joking.

[Sako]

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First off, yes there are strip clubs in Armenia and YES, there are many, many armenian strippers, unfortunately we aren't still in the 18-1900's. I'd like to talk about a very special incident that I think may change the route this thread has taken completely.

A stripper, as I remember, or was she just working at the club? I don't know. Anyways, there was this one guy who slept with her. He also knew that his friends, maybe four-five had also slept with her. You still with me? So, anyways, this guy liked this girl and after talking to her, he realized who she really was. The phrase "beautiful in the inside" is significant here because she was beautiful both on the outside and the inside. Her job didn't define who she was. This guy got really close to this girl in a matter of days. It appears that money had really forced her to get into that business and this guy pulled her out, married her, and they became a great couple, until today. The guys mom was extremely impressed although at first, she couldn't believe her ears. This girl turned out to be an angel in the end. This is the real life version of Ktor mu Erkunki, one of my all time favorites. The guys friends kept teasing him and feeling uncomfortable but he shunned them off, forgot about them and realized what is more important to him. That guy ... was me. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . I'm just kidding, but I would love to have seen the looks on your faces .

The moral of this real-life story is that love has no rules and regulations. It's universal and can make you do things that you always believed you never would. Vigilante, I'm glad that you are truthful but I doubt that girl will ever be with you. Americans aren't always the long-term relationship based people. The girl I talked about was Armenian. American's break up in a matter of weeks, maybe days, it's like a motto, and I'm talking about the good and beautiful girls, what to speak of a stripper? She could be glamorous but I doubt she will ever be more then friends or sex friends, mostly because of the country you live in. Good luck, all the same, but I hope you know your own intentions properly. If you want to just want to go with a guy-gal ploy then you may have landed in the best place. Next time though, I suggest you dial the number she gave you on your cell the second she gives it to you. It will also show that you give your actions more importance and that you don't have time for silly games. If you want love, real love, you'll have to look, not with your eyes but with your heart. Always keep your wits up though, this guy is always there to stop you at every turn, even if you get married. I really suggest you get married with an Armenian girl though, bro, because no matter where you are, your own kind will suite you best, I'm sure. I'm not a fanatic though. If you find someone you care for, be it a Chinese girl, I say love her to your ears. There shouldn't be boundaries in love e.g. I should love an Armenian girl more then a girl from somewhere else. All the best.

[Siggie]

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People have many rationales for the things they do. Intentional murder is obviously worse than heat of passion manslaughter in terms of sentencing. However, that does not change the fact that the individual still engaged in a certain act that is morally reprehensible.

That's kinda hot... when did you complete the transformation into Anon E. Mouse, Esq.?
Who can I talk to about just giving you your JD now? I think once you do this in e-forums, you have graduated and can move on to the bar.