Alright to be shy?

[xBaron Dants]

Baron, you are my favorite CANADIAN!! LOL I love you tooooo BARON! I wish more men were like you honey jan!

OOOO WOOOOOOW, I BEAT DARORINAG!

WHOOP DEE FREAKIN DOO!

[HyeJinx1984]

*stretches arms behind his head, grinning* Aaaaahhhh..

[HyeJinx1984]

LOL, what ever happened to Darorinag? I sorta liked it.

[!EEK]

LOL, what ever happened to Darorinag? I sorta liked it.

booooh booooh Who's the drama queen now huh? huh?

[HyeJinx1984]

......................Not me, I'm just wondering where that dude went.

[!EEK]

Yeah, it's sad..

If I won't be replying for weeks and weeks on this board, will someon get sad? Curious of what happened to me? (correct answer is YES)

[!EEK]

huh?
I thought...
???
what's goin on here Mr. Delacroix?

I j/k...I have a typical armenian name with a lovely "ian" at the end

[Anonymouse]

SO, maybe you should tell me what you tell them...

Any ice breaking sayings?

EEK! You should only read my posts. Don't waste your time with other ones.

It takes alot of practice and time to be successful with this stuff. But I'm telling it to you realistically. First, you have to be mentally prepared. Do not concern yourself of what the reaction might be. Such thoughts automatically throw one off. Take some time when you're alone, in your mind actually plan out how you'd like interactions with women to go. If you've never done this before, you'll learn a lot from it. You'll think of things that you never would have imagined when you're taking things step by step in your mind.

As far as ice breakers go, I already told you some stuff to say to women. You have to make it seem like you are not like every other guy. Say "Hi", and if she responds, there are many ice breakers. I already gave some. When you ask for her name, youre at a party. Keep the conversation very simply and to the point. Girls at a party are not interested in your hobbies or your favorite movie. Here are a few more goodies to try. When you go up to her, tell her why women are crazy, and men are perfect, tell her that she should stop thinking of you only as a sex object, or that she needs to change to have a chance with you. You have to say these things in a cocy and funny way so she laffs while youre sayin it. You must strike a balance. Because if you are too cocy she might think youre overly arrogant, and if youre trying to be too funny without the xxxxy balance, then youll sound stupid funny. Body language is important. Eye contact. Posture, always keep a straight back.

There is a myriad of ways of making a woman feel that attraction. Remember, the key is to approach her in a unique way, to get past her defenses. Because women are always used to many guys approaching them, they naturally have defenses that go up when any guy approaches. Be creative. Be xxxxy. Be funny. DONT be shy. Be assertive. Be unique most of all. Wheny ou hit that point of attraction with the chick, then shell just wanna do anything with you as long as it is with you. Attraction is not a choice, it is predetermined. Women are drawn to a certain thing in men, even though they talk about their subjective taints, they dont know what they are talking about. Women always say one thing and mean another. Deep down they all want a dominant guy who is assertive and confident. They dont want shy weak pansy men. It's simply the truth. This doesnt mean be an a hole. Quite the different. This is being a real gentleman.

You can build a powerful sexual tension and physical attraction in any woman without ever laying a finger on her like if you’ve ever fantasized about having a woman tearing at your clothes and begging you to have your way with her. Practice this stuff. Just go up to several women a day, and do this constantly. It takes time. Im not saying it happens over night. Youll see results gradually. Remember, you arent doing this for your friends, for the women, or anyone. You're doing it for yourself.

[!EEK]

Thank you mouse! I really would have expected your comments to be the most unuseful when I first saw you posted something.

So in resumé its:

-overconfident
-funny
-don't show to much attention towards women

[!EEK]

I wonder if a lot of guys "practice" like that.
I mean that's A LOT of work. it's almost fake.
I don't want guys trying HARD to get my attention.
I just want them to be themselves. if they're a little shy then so be it. I think it's a kind of attractive actually. 95% of guys are "confident" and "know what they're doing" , so it's good to meet shy guys once in a while. again. not SHY SHY... just enough shy to kinda mess up while talking to you cuz they're into you that much. that's good stuff.

Heyhey...veeryone has a different approach.. ..can't take it no more.

I would be more tempted to listen to women's counsel but mouse's stuff seems very believable..