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  • Re: Armenian Eunichs/Hermaphrodites

    Originally posted by Flamenkita View Post
    Best of luck with your import. Here's hoping the parts don't cost you your life's savings when things start falling apart. And I'm sure she relishes the fact that you're comparing "finding" her to buying a car...

    Just hope she isn't biding her time for something "better", or for a way of getting the rest of her family to this side of the puddle. That's when things fell apart for my uncle and his import. She realized that life in America isn't the same as life in the Middle East, that people don't really give a crap about your material achievements. At least that's true for the people I associate with.

    The more you write, the more I feel like you just fell in with a bunch of really common people, you took on their common ways, and then were disappointed that you were not meeting anyone that's not common.

    And, by the way, if you see everything as a material transaction (show me more and I'll offer more? wtf?), then your connections become adversarial. What ever happened to mutuality?
    I'm guessing you've never worked a day of your life.... I've been working since 16 and payed my own way since I was 22 even though I could have sat at home and milked the folks like most Armenians do. Whatever, good luck feeding the feel good stories to the women in your life because those days of well paying American jobs are gone.
    "Nobody can give you freedom. Nobody can give you equality or justice or anything. If you're a man, you take it." ~Malcolm X

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    • Re: Armenian Eunichs/Hermaphrodites

      Originally posted by KanadaHye View Post
      I'm guessing you've never worked a day of your life.... I've been working since 16 and payed my own way since I was 22 even though I could have sat at home and milked the folks like most Armenians do. Whatever, good luck feeding the feel good stories to the women in your life because those days of well paying American jobs are gone.
      Wow... you are just one bitter mo-fo, aren't you? What makes you think you're the only one who's ever worked for what he has? We have all busted our asses to be where we are, but the difference is that some of us also took the time to grow as people.

      It's really too bad that your parents didn't or couldn't care for you. Mostly, thought, what I suspect is that you weren't given adequate emotional care. A lot of folks are hardworking and independent, and have been making their way for a really long time. But they've felt morally supported by their families. I know what Armenian families are like. They think they can get their kids to excel by being critical and punitive. All they do is drive their kids to rebel.

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      • Re: Armenian Eunichs/Hermaphrodites

        Originally posted by Flamenkita View Post
        Wow... you are just one bitter mo-fo, aren't you? What makes you think you're the only one who's ever worked for what he has? We have all busted our asses to be where we are, but the difference is that some of us also took the time to grow as people.

        It's really too bad that your parents didn't or couldn't care for you. Mostly, thought, what I suspect is that you weren't given adequate emotional care. A lot of folks are hardworking and independent, and have been making their way for a really long time. But they've felt morally supported by their families. I know what Armenian families are like. They think they can get their kids to excel by being critical and punitive. All they do is drive their kids to rebel.
        What are your roots and who are you to criticize Armenians from the middle east? At least they have families that they care enough about to bring with them.

        As far as rebelling goes, there is no such thing in our culture. That is something that comes from the West where teenagers are expected to rebel as if it's some sort of normal behavior when in fact it's encouraged by the media.
        Last edited by KanadaHye; 06-05-2012, 07:20 AM.
        "Nobody can give you freedom. Nobody can give you equality or justice or anything. If you're a man, you take it." ~Malcolm X

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        • Re: Armenian lesbians/gays

          KanadaHaye, you are soooooo right in everything you were debating and saying. I almost have the same mentality and way of thinking.

          Flamenkita, you think that you are mature but you're not. I think you watch too much TV and movies, because every line you use are made in Hollywood & associates Sorry for being harsh but that's the reality

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          • Re: Armenian lesbians/gays

            Originally posted by Hyreniq View Post
            Flamenkita, you think that you are mature but you're not. I think you watch too much TV and movies, because every line you use are made in Hollywood & associates Sorry for being harsh but that's the reality
            Actually, I haven't owned a tv for about a decade, and since my kids were born, I don't have time for movies. What I have are two MA's and a PhD, and I'm a psychologist by profession. I think I know quite a bit about how the human mind works,and about how humans develop optimally.

            For whatever reason, most of the guys on this forum have been disappointed and frustrated by their lot in life, and want to blame others and not take responsibility for their own situation. Whenever I have tried to offer a different viewpoint, a novel interpretation, it is immediately rejected.

            I've seen how Armenian young people rebel. They do it on the sly so that no one ever finds out. They live double lives because there is no room for self-expression. And when they stop hiding, they do it in a big way so that the is no possibility for reintegration. A shame, though, because some of those kids are really smart and talented and have more to offer the nation than those who follow orders, like sheeple.

            And I happen to know of many Armenian girls who offer a public face of innocence and obedience, but they go and do everything on the down low. And then a couple of months before marriage, they get their hymens re-constructed so that their husband thinks they are virgins. Still others do everything but vaginal sex (so, oral, anal, you name it, it's all fair game) as long as their membrane is intact. How effed up is that? And there are plenty of doctors all over Armenia and the Middle Eastwho are happy to do the surgery for a nice, hefty price. Virginity at marriage is no guarantee of anything, any more than a young person who seems to be on the right path. When life is so restrictive, people find ingenious ways around it. But when parents are open minded, authoritative yet flexible, they get more of a say as to how their kids will choose to live.

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            • Re: Armenian Eunichs/Hermaphrodites

              Originally posted by KanadaHye View Post
              What are your roots and who are you to criticize Armenians from the middle east? At least they have families that they care enough about to bring with them.
              I am Armenian from both sides, from Bourdj Hammoud, as you know. I know my culture very well, and I know the West very well. I also know enough not to mistake enmeshment and lack of boundaries for love or caring.

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              • Re: Armenian lesbians/gays

                Originally posted by Flamenkita View Post
                And I happen to know of many Armenian girls who offer a public face of innocence and obedience, but they go and do everything on the down low. And then a couple of months before marriage, they get their hymens re-constructed so that their husband thinks they are virgins. Still others do everything but vaginal sex (so, oral, anal, you name it, it's all fair game) as long as their membrane is intact. How effed up is that? And there are plenty of doctors all over Armenia and the Middle Eastwho are happy to do the surgery for a nice, hefty price. Virginity at marriage is no guarantee of anything, any more than a young person who seems to be on the right path. When life is so restrictive, people find ingenious ways around it. But when parents are open minded, authoritative yet flexible, they get more of a say as to how their kids will choose to live.
                Wow.... it's not their vagina's that Armenian guys are concerned with. It's the effect on their attitude and personality that concerns us. You can reshape body parts all you want, you can't change the person inside and men know when they are dealing with a self serving and lazy woman.
                "Nobody can give you freedom. Nobody can give you equality or justice or anything. If you're a man, you take it." ~Malcolm X

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                • Re: Armenian lesbians/gays

                  It's best to let women like Flamenkita think the way they do, but take charge of your own life as a man. Don't put up with their BS, and don't put up with their demands on you. Stick to your guns and your ideals - this is the way it is and you can either accept it or get lost. I'm calling for a radical regeneration and reaffirmation of manhood.

                  Real men aren't subject to the whims and wishes of their nether regions. Real men stick to their ideals, and cow-towing to feminist blowhards plays no role in that paradigm whatsoever.

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                  • Re: Armenian lesbians/gays

                    Originally posted by Flamenkita View Post
                    Actually, Feminists aren't nearly as focused on men's genitals as men, themselves, are. Feminists are mostly interested in exposing and fighting against social and political constructs that threaten the premise of women and men being different but equal.

                    I'm curious, though. Have any of you guys watched the series Mad Men? And what are your thoughts about it? It portrays American professional and personal lives at about the time of the cultural revolution.

                    (Oh, but then, again, some of us are allergic to "popular" culture, even if it is of the caliber of a show like Mad Men or The Wire.)
                    Originally posted by Flamenkita View Post
                    Actually, I haven't owned a tv for about a decade, and since my kids were born, I don't have time for movies. What I have are two MA's and a PhD, and I'm a psychologist by profession. I think I know quite a bit about how the human mind works,and about how humans develop optimally.
                    You see... wait long enough and eventually the truth will come out.
                    "Nobody can give you freedom. Nobody can give you equality or justice or anything. If you're a man, you take it." ~Malcolm X

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                    • Re: Armenian lesbians/gays

                      Originally posted by KanadaHye View Post
                      You see... wait long enough and eventually the truth will come out.
                      First go and watch those series and then we'll talk...if, that is, you can appreciate art.

                      Also, I watch on my computer, after my kids are asleep. I choose what and when I watch.

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