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  • #51
    Originally posted by spiral
    Well

    I think that it's partially due to the person's personality, partially to the the environment you were exposed to, and partially due to your age.

    I agree that you shouldn't think about what people are going to think of you. But that doesn't mean you should treat them like crap, to show to them that you don't care. I don't agree with mouse about blabbing without thinking.

    It's so distasteful.




    It's good to be apprehensive. It's always in your favor in the long-run. Just as long as you don't let it control you.

    Shakespeare wrote, "What a piece of work is a man--in apprehension, how like a god!

    ...and Shakespeare knows his stuff!
    Guys, don't listen to her. Trust me. If your goal is to approach chicks and get results and hook up, don't be apprehensive at all. And we all know that the real author of 'Shakespeare' was really Francis Bacon.
    Achkerov kute.

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    • #52
      After the advice youve been giving on this thread mouse, i am officially PIMPIFYING you.
      *SHAZAM*
      YOU BEEN PIMPIFYED BOY!

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      • #53
        So in the end... don't be shy, be confident, be polite and always remember you can't undo a first impression
        "All I know is I'm not a Marxist." -Karl Marx

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        • #54
          and by apprehension, I don't mean nervous-apprehension.

          I mean acting, for a reaction. You can shape reactions through your reaction.

          Makes sense?

          It's sort of like palying chess. When you turn off your brain and just make moves, you lose. But if you make a move intentionally, to trap the other, you win.


          ...and Tigran?....pimpifying?..
          Last edited by spiral; 11-16-2004, 05:25 PM.

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          • #55
            Originally posted by spiral

            It's sort of like palying chess. When you turn off your brain and just make moves, you lose. But if you make a move intentionally, to trap the other, you win.
            Depnds on who your playing. Sometimes I win with my brain turned off

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            • #56
              I didn't read any of your respones, seeing as how I'm not really interested in them...so don't shoot me if I get repetitive...

              Shyness has to do mostly with age and experience...you learn to be confident by your interactions with others...before I started working, I never knew how to talk to someone without stumbling all over myself to get my point across...but once I got the hang of talking to people, it became easier and easier....I'm sure in the next few years, once you finish school and go out into the "real world" you'll find it does get easier and better...and you'll be less likely to act shy. So chill out, no one is gonna shoot you for turning a little red...and I actually think that's kinda cute....SOMETIMES.

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              • #57
                Maybe but it's really annoying.. Pffff I'm 17 and till when will I have to whait huh? 30? I want a brain surgery

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                • #58
                  I had the worst life when I was 17, so feel good you're not me.

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                  • #59
                    Originally posted by spiral
                    Well

                    I think that it's partially due to the person's personality, partially to the the environment you were exposed to, and partially due to your age.

                    I agree that you shouldn't think about what people are going to think of you. But that doesn't mean you should treat them like crap, to show to them that you don't care. I don't agree with mouse about blabbing without thinking.

                    It's so distasteful.



                    It's good to be apprehensive. It's always in your favor in the long-run. Just as long as you don't let it control you.

                    Shakespeare wrote, "What a piece of work is a man--in apprehension, how like a god!

                    ...and Shakespeare knows his stuff!

                    I like you. I Couln't put it better myself.
                    Memo for guys!.Not every women are playing with barbies,some of them are playing chess.And you MUST use your brains.USE It or you are gonna lose it!
                    I'm a monstrous mass of vile, foul & corrupted matter.

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                    • #60
                      NOthing works for me. I don't want to start the conversation/etc.. I want my shyness to disapear instantly!! No one knows how I feel

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