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  • #71
    Originally posted by Anonymouse
    I was being nice. I do not understand. I poured some for me as well. Jeez, fine. More for me. Go and try to be nice and people don't appreciate it.
    it had more of a sarcastic tone than a sincere wine offering...yeah, more for you i guess since i don't like to drink that much anyways....

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    • #72
      Originally posted by hyebruin
      it had more of a sarcastic tone than a sincere wine offering...yeah, more for you i guess since i don't like to drink that much anyways....
      I was seriously being sincere though. And you thought I was sarcastic.
      Achkerov kute.

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      • #73
        Originally posted by Anonymouse
        I was seriously being sincere though. And you thought I was sarcastic.
        ok then, in that case i'll have a lil, pour me some more

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        • #74
          Originally posted by hyebruin
          ok then, in that case i'll have a lil, pour me some more
          Sure thing. I'll pour two. One for me and one for you.



          Cheers. To good health. Youth. And Fidelity.
          Achkerov kute.

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          • #75


            Don't forget fertility.

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            • #76
              Originally posted by Anonymouse
              Sure thing. I'll pour two. One for me and one for you.



              Cheers. To good health. Youth. And Fidelity.
              i wonder if it's legal to drink and surf the net at the same time! i've never done it before.... it's my first time! do i need 'wrist belts?' LMAO

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              • #77
                Nope. You will however get an SUI. So be careful. I can't believe I played on it...

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                • #78
                  Originally posted by Anonymouse
                  Now Mr. Winston, how can you sit there and deny that you have never had thoughts of acting on these very sexual thoughts with your female friends, all the while being married? Now I know it's tough, and I don't expect you to be forthcoming as most married men are not, but you do not have to get frustrated. Remember, we control frustration, it doesn't control us. And the reason you will not admit this is because it will prove me right (and we know how you would hate to have me proven right), thus who knows what you will make up, all these mythical friends of yours, to somehow "prove" that I am wrong. But it's okay, life is indeed a varied thing. Here, I'll pour you a glass of wine.
                  Unlike you I have a great many friends - male and female - none mythical. I'm just the type of person who gets along well with others and I am interested in what others do and think and have established and maintained a great many friendships over the years. In fact 2 weekends ago we had a get together of a group of friends that have known each other - and stayed close - since High School. And some flew in from accross the country (the party was for a friend who was visiting from Iraq). Many people - such as yourself obviously (who likely has no friends at all) - just can't fathom how such a large groupsof us can still manage to stay such close friends over the years - but we have.

                  Ok - but back to this issue of men and women being friends and perhaps having sexual attraction and such. Well sure - I have sexual thoughts about women all the time - so, what does this prove? Well for one it does not preclude interaction or friendship - and its not at all as if having such thoughts actually means wanting to act on such - so there is really no frustration factor. And I have a very open relationship with my wife in that I can and do discuss anything with her (and we can and occasionally do have fun with or are just amused by such sexual thoughts [on my part] - I have no problem at all telling my wife that some gal made me horny and specifically why etc...whats the big deal?...shes not at all insecure about it...and besides my wife gets the benefit of my amorous feelings regardless - and she loves the fact that I'm a very randy guy [perhaps unussually so I'll admit/and she seems to think so!... ] - even at my age ...big time!).

                  However your claims about actually wanting to act on such thoughts about other women and being frustrated and such are giving more weight to such thoughts then they deserve - and that is entirely my point. Its natural (and all in good fun) for men and women to have sexual thoughts/desires and such concerning the opposite sex (each in their own way). Proximity and time together can obviously increase this (but not necessarily as we develop accepted/expected patterns of interactions and such issues - if they ever were a factor - often fade away or transform into perhaps a caring relationship - but without actual desire (for sex). But the reason you think that sexual attraction is deterministic for male-female relations (meaning no possibility of friendship because of such) - is because you see no value whatsoever in women apart from sexual - and this is your problem (perhaps shared by many [unenlightened and primitive thinking] men...oh and most Muslims it seems...and here you are arguing that you are "European" - far from it...). So while I can appreciate the sexuality and obvious sexual attributes of women - I also appreciate them for what they are - people - with many things (other then sex) to offer (and no different - for the most part - then any guy friends I/one might have). And in fact I'm probably overemphasizing the sex part only to acknowledge it - but in fact it normally plays little ot no part in any interaction I might have with any and all women I meet on any given day or that I know and interact with on a long term basis. I know these concepts are all totally alien to you - but this is only due to your underdevelopment as a human being...and I'm sorry for that...but please don't try and pretend to be an adult just yet....you have quite a ways to go.
                  Last edited by winoman; 03-09-2005, 08:28 AM.

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                  • #79
                    Tom Lykis is God. Although most of what he says about women is hypocritical considering he's a fat ugly pig who's been married 4 times and STILL hasn't learned his lesson....but he's funny nonetheless.

                    As far as this topic goes...If men would only stop thinking with their peckers for one goddamn second, they would be able to see that their girlfriends are with THEM...not her guy friends. That right there should tell you something of her judgement...I've never cheated on anyone in my life, and to assume that women who have "guy friends" will cheat faster is logical however unwarranted. The point is, everyone should be allowed the benefit of the doubt, or the insecurites that plague the male population considering this issue will grow...

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                    • #80
                      Originally posted by Anonymouse
                      Now Mr. Winston, how can you sit there and deny that you have never had thoughts of acting on these very sexual thoughts with your female friends, all the while being married? Now I know it's tough, and I don't expect you to be forthcoming as most married men are not, but you do not have to get frustrated. Remember, we control frustration, it doesn't control us. And the reason you will not admit this is because it will prove me right (and we know how you would hate to have me proven right), thus who knows what you will make up, all these mythical friends of yours, to somehow "prove" that I am wrong. But it's okay, life is indeed a varied thing. Here, I'll pour you a glass of wine.
                      Originally posted by winoman
                      Unlike you I have a great many friends - male and female - none mythical. I'm just the type of person who gets along well with others and I am interested in what others do and think and have established and maintained a great many friendships over the years. In fact 2 weekends ago we had a get together of a group of friends that have known each other - and stayed close - since High School. And some flew in from accross the country (the party was for a friend who was visiting from Iraq). Many people - such as yourself obviously (who likely has no friends at all) - just can't fathom how such a large groupsof us can still manage to stay such close friends over the years - but we have.
                      Request #2 -- STOP IT!
                      [COLOR=#4b0082][B][SIZE=4][FONT=trebuchet ms]“If you think you can, or you can’t, you’re right.”
                      -Henry Ford[/FONT][/SIZE][/B][/COLOR]

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